One of the most frequently asked relationship questions is “what does he think of me”, we tell you how to know the answers
Relationship Questions: What does he think of me?
Relationship questions are among the most popular questions asked to our Psychics. And one in particular is “What does he think about me?” Here, Lucy pin 4552 tells you what the signs are of what he thinks, whether he cares or not, even if he is head over heels in love!
MEN ARE COMPLICATED?!
There is no doubt about it! Men are not always as transparent as women when it comes to expressing feelings and emotions! Us women like to talk about our feelings. And, because we are so sentient and intuitive, self-expression often comes very naturally to us. Because women are so in touch with their feelings, they really do desire someone who can convey how they feel. Of course, some women are far more sensitive than others, but when it comes down to the crux of dating and new beginnings, the question is:
How does he feel about me?
And what does he think of me?
Not always an easy question to ask! However, being psychically gifted can certainly help in spreading insight and perspective. This can especially the revealing when it concerns certain emotions which can be very hard to convey or to understand!
So, before going ahead and looking into some of these reasons there may be something very important to acknowledge. For instance, [1] Vossenkemper, who is a couples’ therapist, explains. “On one hand, men are less socially supported when it comes to talking about their feelings. Little boys are given less metaphorical space to explore and share their feelings. Some examples are less time to cry, less tolerance of ‘pansy’ feelings. On top of this, they are more picked on for simply being sensitive. So ,they grow up not learning *the skill* (it is a skill) of freely discussing and navigating their feelings.
On the other hand, and probably somewhat a byproduct of social norms, men generally get more physiologically overwhelmed when discussing the hard things. Hard things can be raw and vulnerable conversations like sex and love. Or hard things can also mean feeling discouraged and defeated. That physiological overwhelm can be stopped if the person ignores the topic, and so they’re less inclined to dive into the world of feelings.
THE WARNING SIGNS
Therefore, there are some things we perhaps need to acknowledge about men before jumping straight in at the deep end! Quite often new relationships can dissipate because of the woman trying to force information out of a man who is not ready to commit. The first warning signs to take account of in a new relationship are lack of communication, angry temperaments, secretiveness or inconsistency .
If these signs don’t improve after the first few months, then it is obvious that there is something that needs investigating further.
RELATIONSHIP QUESTIONS:
How do you know if he is interested?
How do you tell if a man is just plain shy, awkward about his feelings or just not interested? If you want to know what he is thinking about you, then watch his actions! Men usually show tell-tale signs of how they feel through actions. You can spot true loyalty or disloyalty this way. Men do not always use words.
Here are some example to look out for:
- He waits for you. Even if you are late, or have somewhere else to go, he will offer to accompany you, pick you up, take you out, or try new places of interest for dating. He will never just drop you; he hangs on, this tells you that he is thinking, because you are special.
- You notice that he throws little gestures. “You look nice” or “I really like that pendant you were wearing last night”. This means that he remembers things about you. To take time and pay attention to what you were wearing is a big deal for a guy! You know that he is interested in you if this happens!
- He likes your social media page! If he starts to follow you on social media or starts commenting on your pictures, status updates and captions, then that is also a sign that he is thinking “Wow she has something interesting to say” or “I can’t get enough of her images”. Men are visual creatures, so remember that if you are wearing something flattering in a photo or look particularly attractive to him, he will spend time looking at your amazing images! But not just you! He will also want to know about the places you have been to visit and the type of people you hang out with!
AND EVEN CLEARER SIGNS
- He mentions in messages and conversation that he has been thinking about you.
- Straight forwardly, he won’t hesitate to tell you that he admires you and often thinks of you if he really feels for you! By informing you that you are in his thoughts, he is letting you know what he is starting to care for you and often finds himself thinking about you at random times! That is a big sign he is thinking of you a lot!
- He tells you he wants you to be happy! He may show you interest by buying you little gifts, sending you messages, asking if you want to try the new restaurant down the road, or even just simply telling you that he is putting your happiness first! You can tell he is thinking about making you happy, when he does unexpected things, like turning up on your doorstep to surprise you or buying you flowers!
- He looks at you a lot! When you are together and he spends a lot of time looking at you and making direct eye contact when you talk. If this happens, you can certainly be sure that he is thinking, “Wow she is amazing” or he is thinking “I am so infatuated!” Or, other times, he may simply be thinking manly thoughts! Especially if his body language is a bit all over the place! You can often recognise this by him being edgy, restless or clumsy! This shows through body language, so watch carefully! Because when thoughts and feelings are very powerful, we struggle to maintain our balance and basic mannerisms. This is because we are dealing with a powerful sensory overload of erratic feelings that we have no control over!
RELATIONSHIP QUESTIONS:
How can you tell if he is not really thinking about you
- He doesn’t reply to your messages. Sometimes we can’t always respond to messages. However, you know that if you are super important to someone they will respond when they can! If it has been more than twice that he has ignored your message, then you can be sure that what he is thinking is more about himself or other potential interests he may have at that stage.
- He doesn’t show respect for you. He will not be thinking of you, if he always decides where you are going on the date, or he decides that when he messages you, you must answer immediately! Or that when you are talking to him, he is either on his phone or not listening.
- You feel self-conscious and not good enough around him. This is a classic sign he is not thinking about how you feel or likely to respect how you feel. He may be very overpowering if you feel non-existent or small around him, worthless or anxious. This is a sign that he is not thinking or caring about how you feel or what you even think!
- You are scared to be yourself. If you feel scared to be yourself around him, or fear that when you speak or raise a concern/opinion he might snap, then this is a sign that what he is thinking is mostly anger and self-righteousness and he may be thinking of ways in which he can overpower you so that he has most of the control.
AND EVEN WORSE…
- He charms you and comes forwards vehemently, then ignores you. This explains that he is likely thinking you are very attractive. He feels drawn to you, but he is only really thinking about sex and seduction and not thinking about how his actions make you feel emotionally.
- His eyes are wondering every time you go out. This indicates that he is thinking of you when it suits him, but when you are out and about his mind is still hunting and is looking for fresh bate, rather like a hungry Lion! “The male mind can be ” If you feel his attention sways away from you when you are out, then he is likely thinking about having you as his chocolate cake and someone else as banoffee pie.
YOUR RELATIONSHIP QUESTIONS?
We hope this list has been helpful for you to recognise and understand what “he” thinks and feels about you. It can often provide clarity to have a little list to remind yourself during times of uncertainty. Of course, we can often misapprehend how someone feels. We can even assume that they are not interested. This is where psychic readings can also be very conducive for that extra bit of enlightenment that you may need to surge ahead with your flame! Relationship questions can cause sleepless nights, yet most questions can be easily answered. Try one of our genuine psychics and get great insight today!
Many blessings
References
[1] https://thecounselinghub.com/taravossenkemper/
https://thriveworks.com/blog/why-are-men-less-likely-to-talk-about-their-feelings/
